There are things that being a mom has taught me. Things that I wouldn't have learned otherwise, I feel.
These are 5 things out of many I have learned.
1. Enjoy the moment
My head is always in the future. Whatever I am doing in the present is for the future. I hardly just "live" in the moment. My downtime is watching things on Netflix while daydreaming about the future or falling asleep.
But whether I am out dancing or staying in with my little girls, it's important to take a breath and enjoy what I am doing.
If you aren't enjoying the present, then how could you possibly enjoy the future? It's the journey, the process, the things you love doing, the people you love that makes it all worth it and I have to constantly remind myself of this.
So, enjoy the moment.
2. Smile and laugh
Whether things are tough or going great, I have learned to always smile. Fake it til' you make it!
Even when I am upset, sometimes, I find myself laughing- perhaps because the situation is so ludicrous, but whatever the case, it makes me feel better.
Not only does it make me feel better, but I want to be able to show my kids that, even when things are tough, it doesn't have to mean your attitude has to be synonymous to the situation.
3. Plan ahead!
I'm going to have to thank my 8th grade AVID teacher for this. I forgot her name or what AVID even stands for anymore, but I learned how to be organized and manage my time wisely in that class. She wasn't joking when she said we would be able to use this stuff in college or as an adult.
But I love planning and organizing my life. Everything has a set schedule and I get through my things to do list 90% of the time. I set aside time for working out, dancing, cooking, errands, "educational" time with the kids, working, even naps! (No joke)
It helps me sleep at night, knowing exactly what I'm going to do tomorrow and I wake up looking forward to the things I need to get done... is that weird? haha
I never really used it outside of school. But now as a mom, it's something I do once a week.
4. Dream big, Go hard
Growing up, I think I was one of those people that were scared to set goals because I didn't want to be disappointed when I didn't achieve them. But here I am, dreaming big and doing what I can to make it happen.
I have a few set backs (something I plan on sharing with you all once I get the problems fixed), but I really know what I want for myself and for my kids (hopefully for the better).
It's a little tough sometimes- Working hard means sacrificing time with friends, putting money into a savings account instead of spending it, or even missing out on family get togethers on occasions.
But that's what it takes to train hard, work hard, study hard all the while being a mom and a wife.
In the end, real friends and family will be there when I reach my goals.. and keep pursuing goals.
5. Give
I always remind myself that my life isn't all that tough.
I have a body I can dance with, I have kids and a husband to share my heart with, I have my faith in Christ, I have a place to call home... you get the idea.
When I say give, I don't mean just in a monetary sense, but a piece of yourself, whether it's knowledge, philosophy, time, patience, wisdom.
I love sharing what I know about fitness. I'm at a novice level, but there are people who are unsure and have questions and I love sharing with them the knowledge that I know. I'm even considering taking it to the next level and become a personal trainer..but one thing at a time! I need to get my master's degree first :P
I learned that giving is more rewarding than simply taking. Sharing what you know about the world, sharing your happiness, sharing a piece of knowledge your are passionate about, is much more valuable than taking. Yes, be a student, because you can't not stop learning and continue your growth, but share as you carry on your journey- it's more memorable that way :)
These are the things I live to on a daily basis. These are the things that being a mom has taught me- what Jade and Melody has taught me<3
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